1. Is this typical?
Yes, it is typical for healthy women due to the ebb of estrogen (the weakening ovarian function) and the overriding of testosterone over estrogen in the body. Old Taoists consider that 30's women are sex tiggers and 40's women are sex wolves. The ebb of estrogen production thins out the vaginal lining and helps the G-spot and Epicenter nerves to "expose" for stimulation. Your G-spot becomes more responsive. When your adrenal and liver functions are still very effective, your body can produce sufficient testosterone to power your libido and sexual/orgasmic response without the ovarian function.
You should be very proud of your health.
2. Does drinking play a big part in sexual arousal?
Yes, Drinking promotes the liver to convert testosterone to estrogen, the liver Aromatization process!
Testosterone is equal to libido!
Alcohol can diffuse through the barrier between the arties and the brain to slow down the nervous function.
It will numb the nervous system to weaken erection for men after 30.
3. Also in masterbation for me , Orgasm takes along time? I do masterbate but i feel i need more.
To make you come more quickly and powerful, you need a simultaneous simulation on your clirois, G-spot and Epicenter with a high stroke rate and a high stimulation pressure.
My Finger Plier Method can make you come in less than 5 minutes.
For lovemaking, you need a hard penis and use my 3-point Excitation Position, as described in https://actionlove.com/love/method.htm
4. I don't know what it is is older men sometimes have problems with not getting an erection?
Young men have the same problem too. Why?
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He may have the erection problem for certain years. This problem causes divorce!
Anyway, our product ViaPal-hGH-D (item 3-012) can put him back to work for you.
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